Timing is everything.

Hey Technicians, Have you ever struggled to make a project, relationship, festival, or crop/garden work out when you wanted it to, only to discover that when it finally came together, the timing was better than you had planned? Timing is everything. A joke told a minute too late doesn't land. A crop planted before the storm grows; planted late, it withers. Meet someone before you understand who you are, and you can't relate. Back to agriculture. Everything is an experiment, and growing plants at the whim of Mother Nature and the weather is always challenging. It requires a great deal of faith and willingness…
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Stop beating yourself up Part 2 – A big enough carcass on which to feed.

The cheetah only sprints for 38secs per hunt - She either catches the prey or gives up in that amount of time. Stop beating yourself up Part 2 - A big enough carcass on which to feed. In sales (and we're all in the world of selling products, events, experiences, and food to people), they say, "You eat what you kill." Isn't that why we love this business? Our efforts directly affect our income. You are more profitable if you hold a great event, host a great wedding, launch an excellent tulip festival, and care for your guests. You went out and made the sale. You…
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Stop beating yourself up Part 1 – The Cyclical Nature of Motivation

I never believed in work-life balance. Stop beating yourself up Part 1 - The Cyclical Nature of Motivation You gotta give 110% all the time. That is how I typically function, and if I'm not giving 110%, if there is any margin left, I must fill that time with something productive. At least that's what I used to think. That's what workaholics think. Any spare time is wasted time you have to "max out." Max out your finances.Max out your time at work.Max out your effort each day in the gym. Last few years, this started not to feel right. I think maxed out, always-on, and full-throttle…
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“Energy Roadblocks & Speed Bumps” – Energy Growth Part 2 of 3

Speed bumps sap your team's energy. "Energy Roadblocks & Speed Bumps" - Energy Growth Part 2 of 3 "We've been over this and over this and over this." "How many times do we have to have this same discussion?" "That's not something we talk about." Speed bumps. Energy is not tied directly to the number of things you need to do but instead fluctuates based on the rewards of doing the tasks. Completing a project generates energy. Achieving a goal creates energy. Making solid progress and seeing the results of your work all create energy. Repeating decisions, arguing, misdirection, interruptions, starting and stopping all suck energy; these are all speed…
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“Ice is unpredictable.”

We had a legitimate winter, so I tried a new hobby my Minnesota farm friends recommended. Thought I was doing it pretty good! "Ice is unpredictable." It's a quieter time on the farm in winter. We finally get some downtime, and when visiting friends at farm conventions, I ran into some farmers with a pumpkin patch in Minnesota. They were a gruff old bunch, all bearded and taunted me as a 'soft Mid-Atlantic Boy' throughout the convention. I had had about enough, so I asked, "What makes you so tough up in the Land of Little Sodas anyway?" "Ice fishing.…
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“You might be tired of it.” – Energy Growth Part 1 of 3

$175 a day to sleep in the stroller:-) "You might be tired of it." Life is really a game of energy management. Have you ever experienced a time when... You went on vacation but found yourself too tired to do anything?You were working on a new idea and lost track of time into the wee hours?You had to put on a happy face to get through a child's birthday party?You were firing on all cylinders all day and came home refreshed from all the action, still not tired?You found everything exhausting, even the good things around you, and you couldn't wait…
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“Activate the 5 Senses” – What I learned at NAFDMA Part 3 of 3

Super practical for this final NAFDMA follow-up blog today! I was a presenter in the "Events Panel" and came away with one of the most valuable models from my fellow presenter, Jenny Ferels. It's so fun to see how our presentation as a panel came together. Hugh - The big picture: Should you choose to do this event? What are your goals? What does success look like in real numbers and actions by guests? Is what you propose an event, or is it an attraction or activity? Jen - Model for structuring an event you have chosen to do using Hugh's criteria. Actual templates for modeling…
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“Hope is not a strategy” What I learned at NAFDMA pt 2 of 3

Lee Rubin on stage at NAFDMA with the 5 C's of Building High Performing Teams dropped a quote that stuck with me. It is shocking how little we actually know. It is unbelievable how little it takes for us to believe. As you consider all the uncertainty in the world, you should be suspicious of incredibly certain people. In his keynote speech, Lee Rubin warned us that "Hope is not a strategy." As the tide of information overload rises, there is increasing pressure to relieve the stress of uncertainty in our lives in whatever way we can. Don't like her idea? She's dumb.Don't like his politics? He's a tool for…
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“Connective Tissue” What I learned at NAFDMA pt 1 of 3

Did you get to ride the Mini-SuperMegaSlide in the booth?! Many dared and most survived at the NAFDMA Expo - Biggest ever?! What a convention. NAFDMA in person was a wild ride of a family-reunion-dance-rave-business-masterclass-dinner-party with some of my favorite people in the world. Someone asked, "Why is NAFDMA so different?" My answer was the structure of the convention that has been in place since my first convention waaaaaaaaay back in 2000. Put the Bus Tour first. The Bus Tour allows a huge convention to shrink first from 600 to 55, then to the people next to you. You are immersed with your Bus Group at…
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A run, a funeral, a dinner, a birthday

I started running again once my son joined cross-country, but he'll brow-beat me if I run indoors on the treadmill. The run. The night before, the night before. I laid out my Hokas, hat, and gloves by the door; my shorts, compression shirt, reflective shirt, and socks on the floor of my closet. Off to sleep. 5:58 AM. The alarm goes off, stumble to my feet, everything assembled goes on and off to the kitchen. I fumble around making breakfast. Cracking eggs, sizzling breakfast meat, load the plates, then they go in the microwave - safe from the kitties - because you…
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